Under normal circumstances, this is an interesting time of year.  The idyllic mixes with reality and creates for each of us an individual holiday picture.  Over the course of the past twelve months, we have lived through triumphs and hardships, trials and tribulations, all personal and all meaningful.  These events set the tone for each of our respective Christmas seasons.   And we, as humans, emotionally attach ourselves to material possessions to set the perfect stage for Santa.  The perfect tree; the perfect gift; the perfect dinner party.  Get the carols on.  Send the cards out.  Go through the motions, the hustle and bustle and feel good.  Send the…