The holidays can be loaded, it’s true.  It’s that potentially chaotic time of doing the make-sure-everything-looks-good-and-gets-done rounds.  Pile the added traveling/visiting/gift-giving responsibilities on top of the guarantee of nostalgia, and it’s no wonder some people wish they could skip December.  If that isn’t you, horaay!  The following will only enhance your already special time.  Here are tips for enjoying the holidays without bankrupting your peace and happiness.   Embrace Nostalgia. The holidays bring memories, it is unavoidable.  But you are the writer of your own story.  If holiday nostalgia has traditionally been a struggle, you have permission to rewrite.  Start new traditions.  If you never had a…