Image courtesy of Flickr   This is a good week to talk about being in love. Romance is only one of several aspects of intimacy.  If the loss of romance has become a primary focus in a relationship, it is likely decoying you away from what is actually present.  Meaning, focusing in a narrow way on what is missing is a sure-fire way to not only condemn your connection, but to also kill whatever has replaced the romance.  Love encompasses so very much, just not all at once.  Romance may soften and give way to a reliability, a companionship that deepens intimacy through the little details.  If one partner is…