I have started and restarted this piece three times.  I have talked with professionals.  I have made pages of notes and looked at it from a teacher’s perspective (I spent five years teaching high school). I also tried the political perspective and the psychological perspective.  The more perspectives that I try to see, the more I write and then I only end up with more unanswered questions.   Finally, I decided to scrap all of the other points of view and focus solely on the parents’ perspective.  My perspective.  I want to think about what I have done and will continue to do with my children.  My ultimate hope is…