Image courtesy of Flickr Grief is like the ocean; it comes on waves ebbing and flowing.  Sometimes the water is calm, and sometimes it is overwhelming.  All we can do is learn to swim. ~ Vicki Harrison   I have wanted to write this post for awhile but it has been one I had a hard time writing because it is all still so painful.  A few months back my father passed away at the age of 67 on the golf course (midswing no less) of a massive heart attack.  The friends he was playing with tried to revive him and the golf course staff even brought out one of those heart…